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When Doctors Are Rated Like Uber Drivers

Mar 31, 2026

We live in a rating culture. Nearly everything can be reviewed, scored, and reduced to stars—restaurants, drivers, hotels, even therapists and physicians. At first glance, this seems like progress. I’m a strong believer in transparency because it empowers people. In many settings, feedback can genuinely improve the quality of services.

But something important gets lost when medicine is squeezed into a five-star system.

Healthcare is not a typical service industry, yet it is increasingly treated like one. Physicians are being evaluated not only on their clinical judgment and medical expertise, but on customer-service metrics like friendliness, wait times, and whether patients feel satisfied in the moment. Those factors matter, but they are not the whole picture. In fact, they can sometimes be misleading.

As a result, a doctor can do everything medically right and still receive a negative review.

I experienced this firsthand when I received a one-star rating after canceling a clinic day at the last minute. From the patient’s perspective, I understand how frustrating that must have felt. Some people wait months to see their primary-care doctor, and having that appointment canceled can feel incredibly disappointing.

What most people don’t realize, however, is how significant it is for a physician to cancel clinic. It takes A LOT. We know our patients are depending on us, and we feel that responsibility deeply. Many of us go to work sick, with fevers, even when we probably shouldn’t, because we don’t want to let our patients down.

What the patient couldn’t see that morning was that my daughter was having episodes of cyanosis, and I had to take her to the emergency room.

Situations like this highlight an important psychological pattern. As described by Lee Ross (1977), the fundamental attribution error is our tendency to evaluate situations based on limited information and fill in the gaps with assumptions. We often attribute someone’s actions to their character rather than to circumstances. A canceled appointment becomes “this doctor doesn’t care,” rather than “something urgent may have happened.”

Beyond this, there is a broader issue. When physicians know they are constantly being evaluated, it can subtly shift behavior. Most doctors are already wired to please, in part because they have been conditioned to perform under constant evaluation throughout their training. Medical education is long and demanding, often requiring at least seven years beyond college, including medical school and residency, with some specialties requiring even more.

During that time, physicians are trained to meet high expectations, perform consistently, and avoid mistakes. When a public rating system is layered on top of that, the pressure to please only increases.

Over time, this can create a concerning incentive: Keep patients happy, even when it conflicts with good medical judgment.

For example, patients may request medications like antibiotics, opioids, benzodiazepines such as Xanax, or stimulants like Adderall. In some cases, these requests are appropriate. In many cases, they are not. A responsible physician has to make careful decisions, especially when medications can interact in dangerous ways or when a treatment, like unnecessary antibiotics, may cause more harm than benefit. That often means saying no, setting clear boundaries, and accepting that the patient may feel disappointed.

In a rating-driven environment, however, saying no can come at a cost.

The doctor who prioritizes a patient’s well-being and acts in their best interest may receive a negative review when requests are declined. Meanwhile, the doctor who complies, even with questionable requests, may be rewarded with five stars. Over time, this kind of system risks reinforcing the wrong behaviors.

At the same time, there is an emotional toll on physicians that is rarely acknowledged. Many doctors struggle with perfectionism and a strong desire to do right by their patients. A negative review does not simply roll off. It lingers and can lead to rumination, self-doubt, and questioning one’s competence, even when the criticism is based on incomplete information or cognitive bias. 

None of this means patients should not share their experiences. Constructive feedback is important. It helps improve systems and keeps physicians accountable. Respect, communication, and professionalism matter deeply in healthcare, and those things deserve to recognized, both positively and negatively. 

However, it does mean we should approach online ratings with more thought and nuance.

A review captures how someone felt in a specific moment, but it doesn’t necessarily reflect the quality, safety, or ethics of the care provided. It’s one reason to take physician ratings with a grain of salt. Reviews also rarely capture the full picture of who that physician is. One interaction, especially one shaped by frustration or disappointment, is often only a small part of a much larger story.

Part of the challenge is that medicine isn’t always about giving people what they want. It often involves decisions that are uncomfortable, inconvenient, or even unpopular. These decisions are often made together, through conversation and understanding, and they don’t always feel easy in the moment. In many cases, good care means setting limits, having honest discussions, providing education, and focusing on long-term health.

So yes, read reviews. Do your research when choosing a physician, and meet them to see if they’re the right fit for you. Approach the visit with openness and a willingness to discuss your concerns. Thoughtful feedback has value and can help others make informed decisions. But before reducing a doctor to a numeric star rating, please take a moment to pause and consider what you might not be seeing. Think about the context behind the interaction, the complexity of medical decision-making, and the responsibility that comes with it. 

Because behind every profile is a human being. Someone working under significant pressure, trying to make the right decisions for their patients and doing the best that they possibly can. That’s something ratings simply can’t capture.

A version of this has been published on: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-other-side-of-the-white-coat/202603/when-doctors-are-rated-like-uber-drivers 

References

Ross, L. (1977). The intuitive psychologist and his shortcomings: Distortions in the attribution process. In L. Berkowitz (Ed.), Advances in experimental social psychology (Vol. 10, pp. 173–220). Academic Press.

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